rachel...i think the best thing to do for this thing is read what i post i read this on the internet....

• Patience is key.
• Remember that no argument can be solved if the conditions are hostile between the two of you.
• Think before you speak.
• Be casual, don't move right into talking about the issue right off the bat.
• Act calm, you don't want to panic or hesitate.
• Don't get angry because they will think you're not being serious.

editWarnings

• If you genuinely hurt your friend, it may take more time than you like.
• If your efforts are rejected don't keep persisting, give up for a while and maybe try again later

see other ppl have this thing dude!!! read and understand it! lets dont talk for say....3 days then try later